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Many of us find it hard to make decisions and some of us make way too much decisions, which can tire us out. I was given this book WIKID Power from my wonderful friend Ian Coombe who is the author of WIKID Power, Decision Triplet and The Deductive Detective.

I had the pleasure to interview Ian on the Three Quirks Radio Station 89.3FM to discuss about his book. So we were able to dive into his journey and his book.

Has there been a time in your life where you sit on the fence, whether it is for personal or in your career? Everyone has and it’s a human behaviour where sometimes what stops us it is because of fear or not being able to see the hope or outcomes in our decisions.

I was happily married for 13 years, it was just the last 3 years that had become harder and days felt long, life started to become harder and work, personal life in the tasks that I do had compounded. After 13 years I realised life in terms of ‘happiness’ started to disappear. I knew my relationship had fallen apart and the biggest decision I had to make in a toxic relationship, I had to say was “It’s time’. The decision of separating from my long term partner was a BIG issue.

This wasn’t just one big decision in my life, leaving in a comfortable job,  having a family, getting married, working overseas, these are all decisions that I made to pivot my life and to change where I am going.

Decision-making is a cognitive process that helps you map out the consequences of your actions. Decisions help you reach a goal or objective, take action ultimately these decisions shape your destiny. In other words, it’s in the moments of decision that you decide your fate.

So whether those decisions are big or small, significant or seemingly insignificant, does not make a difference. Every decision you make throughout the day shapes your life in innumerable and somewhat unpredictable ways. In fact, your life is how it is today because of all the decisions you’ve made in the past. Therefore, every decision you make is important, and every decision you make significantly influences the direction of your life.

WIKID POWER: How to Make Influential Decisions for  Superiority, hit #1 on Amazon’s Best Seller list. The book shows how to make influential decisions for superiority. It was developed for the military to give advantage over all others. Hence, it is what national authorities wanted to classify beyond TOP SECRET. The book explains the 5-step decision-making process a lot of the steps can apply in life and also in my own business.

It is written in a conversational way and is salted with a myriad of Ian’s wonderful and amazing stories

This book is for anyone who wants to find the first step in what makes yourself happy

To purchase the book click here> WIKID Power on Amazon
Life Value: 10/10
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