Thoughts

Before you let someone enter your life, answer these questions first…

Will it make me “whole” and “complete”?

If you answer yes, then DO NOT enter a relationship or let someone enter your life. Again, I repeat… DO NOT DO IT!!!

In reality, happiness starts from within us. If you want a healthy, long-lasting relationship, check your internal world first. Reflect on what needs to be done within yourself –kindness, understanding, respect, and a lot more.

That is your identity.

Upon reflecting your internal world, assess the people you have in your life.

Assess them to the factor of do they help me grow?

Are they helping me move forward and thrive?

Are they a good people to others?

Are they in sync with me?

And if they are not, do not feel guilty to cut them off of your life.

It is a nonsense relationship if people around you are not in sync with you.

Having a stable group of friends will provide you with an equilibrium. New relationships tend to take up a large chunk of time in the beginning, and a good group will remind you to stay balanced.

Also, right people in your life will tell you if you are not acting like yourself.

Again, if you are looking for a soul partner, make sure you are happy as you can be first.

Self-love before loving others

Before you put forward your love any other individual, you must learn to love yourself.

You require some serious positive energy to truly consider whether you feel good in your own particular self.

In the event that you discover that something is lacking within yourself, you may need to reinforce the adoration you have for yourself preceding going into a relationship.

Learn to be happy being alone first.

And the rest will follow. You will be attracting the right person if you keep all these positive and right attitudes you have within your internal world.