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Love Language. Have you heard about that? Do you know what it is?

Yes?

What is your love language? And what is your partners? You definitely should know what both your love languages are.

Why? Because making a coffee for you is different from asking him or her to drink a coffee with you.

See the difference?

Okay let’s make it simple. For you, you feel loved when she makes you a cup of coffee, but for her; she feels loved when you asked her out for a coffee.

These samples are acts of service and quality time.

In this video, Mister Beast asked for help in arranging 10,000 roses at their place. In asking for help, you should know who to ask. EXPERTS! Whether a professional or your partner’s friend or whoever knows her so much.

In here, you can really attest that Maddy loves Mr. Beast because even if she tells she hates surprises, she was very grateful on the 10,000 roses that is blooming in the house.

An effort was being acknowledged and hugs and kisses are being shared.

Now, let’s talk about the scene when it cuts to MrBeast’s friend Chandler. Chandler’s vulnerability was shown when he asked the girl to be his valentine… was he sad? Maybe! Was he hurt? Maybe!

He didn’t stop there, and kept on going… he shares all the flowers with everyone he met. Being vulnerable is sexy! Please do not forget that. Because showing vulnerability can help you trust other people and love yourself more through ups and downs.

One of the most common issues with love languages is projection. When our dominating love languages are lacking in attention, one of the common signs is projecting your love language onto your partner, in hopes, they will reciprocate and fulfill your need for attention in that area. This commonly causes problems in partners that have differing love languages. So, it is very important that you know yourself and your partners.

You can check the YouTube Video here: